There are many who think that there are no problems in love, no quarrels, no bad moments. And that is very wrong. In relationships, there is everything, trust me. When a man cares a lot, he makes mistakes. I remember our first quarrel, the big quarrel. We haven’t talked in days. We just waited for one of us to give in and call first. You see, it hurt. It hurts a man when You stop talking to the one who was the reason for your smile every day. It hurts a man in the chest, somewhere around the soul, when the messages stop, the calls stop. When it all comes down to waking nights and crazy looking at the ceiling.
On those nights, You cry without tears, You scream without a voice. It’s hard for You. And only one person can help You. A person who makes you feel bad. As time goes on, chest pain increases. It is as if the heart will burst with emptiness and lack. Only then do You realize how empty You are and how much what You don’t have means to You. And then, when You reconcile after all and everything is fine again, then it’s like getting well.
Then everything becomes clear to You.
Who do You live for and who is your life?
Usually, people are too picky and they are complicating. Especially when they are older, and they changed a few partners, they relax. They think by experience that they need to find someone perfect to fit in their life. Finnish product. Usually, relationships based on these facts don’t end up with a happy ending. The beauty of the relationship is not to finish the whole story. Beauty is in reaching goals together, in passing through difficulties, in building together.
The base of every relationship should be trust over all, improvisation instead of selfishness and mutual goals.
Many times in my life I had the opportunity to speak with couples that are 80+ yr. and older, and all of them answer when You ask them…”Where is the secret?” They say, there are no secrets, it is all about communication and trust. This is the recipe.
